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How to solve the biggest problems with people


Whether we like it or not we have to come across someone either sooner or later. There are times when we become so frustrated with even seeing another human cross our path. There are those who pretend like things are picture perfect all the time and they love everyone every single day. Today, I'm here to break that pretending nature and to say confidently that about two or three days out of the week I would rather not see or hear from another human being. I'm that person who feels best when I'm in my own company but I do enjoy the company of a selected few.

So this blog post is entitled how to solve the biggest problems with people. Everyone has problems with someone every now and again and if you say you don't you are probably the biggest pretender on earth. What I do to solve my biggest problems with people is to avoid them and clear my mind. I try to understand their reasons for why they are the way they are, I also try to place my self in the situation to see how I would react. The worse thing you can possibly do is keep yourself in that situation as anger can allow you to say and do things that could make the problems even worse. What I also try to do is to be brutally honest with the person even if it will hurt them because sometimes the honesty is what will push them to make changes to their lives.

What I also try to remember is that I also have my flaws and I do have my moments when I get on the nerves of others. Before we categorize everyone has having problems we should first address the ones that we have. Sometimes the reasons why we see so many problems with others is because we have so many problems ourselves. Therefore, my final words on the topic of solving the biggest problems we have with people is to be more understanding and patient and give every situation some time.


Live good and love people :)
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