Social media has complicated things. Instant interest in the form of likes Relationships formed  Relationships destroyed. Bodies once wrapped, waiting to be unwrapped. Now, on full display A competition to see who is hot. You are liked now  Feeds refreshed  Another you Another you. There is nothing special about you. Everyone is looking for love but being led by lust. First steps taken depending on how much dough you've got. Interest maintained depending on how much bills get paid. Body on body Climax achieved. Now, they block and delete The transaction is complete. Love isn't complicated  It's simply not love you seek. Poem by: ©Saccheen Laing Poetry collection is available here: https://a.co/d/8Whx5fG

So you've just started a new relationship but he is reluctant to post anything about you on his social media platforms. You get frustrated and the first thing that pops into your mind is that he is being unfaithful for he is ashamed of you. Is it that important for the world to know about the new love in your life? Do you need to share every aspect of your relationship with the world? Like the question stated, it's your relationship not the entire world therefore the world needs to know nothing that takes place in your relationship. The need to put your love life out there often comes from the want of social media validation. We want people to see that we are in love and we want them to be accepting of the love that we have found. Many of my readers will pause right there and disagree with me but that is indeed the truth even if you don't want to accept it. Some of us spend more time on the social media portrayal of our love life than we do on the actual relationship. What ...