Happy Relationships a myth?

Do you remember those old time romance movies and those fairytales that left  us concluding that love is always a beautiful thing and we all have the perfect soul mate out there? Well, welcome to the real world where relationships fall apart just like that and the perfect person on paper is never the perfect person in reality.  The thing is we expect long lasting relationships to be a reality when we already have issues with everyday interactions. The way we relate to each other on a day to day basis has broken down over the years. Based on how older generations speak about their times it was as though respect for self and others was the most important thing. Women respected their bodies and men appreciated a good woman. In our generation now women fall for vanity and men get lost in the swing of hips rather than the goodness of the heart.

So are happy relationships a myth? Well no they aren't but they are becoming harder and harder to find. The next thing is the laziness that we have in our day to day activities we take with us into our relationships. Instead of spending time to to work on issues, come up with concrete solutions or make sacrifices we rather to walk away and move on to the next.  The world moves at such a fast pace that relationships also move at too much of a fast pace  as well. We rush to fall in love, we rush to make sacrifices and then we rush to escape the love we claimed we had found. Before we can expect to build strong, happy and lasting relationships we need to understand the true meanings of friendships and know how to interact with each other properly. We need to learn to understand and respect differences and show appreciation for all the good characteristics.

The concept that we module our relationships off of popular couples is another recipe for the quick end to a relationship. You don't know what happens behind closed doors in  those relationships all you know is what they decide to show you. So when your partner starts to get on your nerves you start to compare him or her to that couple and end up ending the relationship because you rather to be with someone like the famous couples. We need to find our own solutions to our relationship issues because the more people we bring into the mix the easier it is for the overcrowding to bring an end to the relationship.

Let us spend time and work on building up what we see potential in and grow from there❤️