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Who can you trust?


Apparently, the in thing is to say that the world is either filled with only fake people or you can trust anybody. Yes, I do agree that more and more these days we are surrounded by people who continually to show themselves to be untrustworthy.  From people who have little to nothing to people who have all the riches in the world people are proving to be hard to trust. Because of this perception relationships, business and everyday interactions have become somewhat more difficult. When you meet someone for the first time they tend to bombard you with more questions than usual. For those in relationships their partners are more skeptical of the things they do and say. For business owners they have to watch their employees keenly while employees have to be careful of those they work for.

My question however is if everyone is speaking out about the increase in untrustworthy people who are those people who are indeed still trustworthy? Believe it or not there are still people in this world who are indeed trustworthy and ironically most of the times they aren't the ones who post 24/7 about how fed up they are with untrustworthy people nor do they brag about being trustworthy. Despite, the levels of fakeness in the world we can't allow ourselves to give up on relationships with others.



✅People spend so much time talking about the fakeness of others that they don't realize the instances in which they have proved to be untrustworthy. The time we spend to point out the flaws in others we could be using to ensure that we improve our own character.

✅ Before entering a relationship ensure that you are a trustworthy person and that you are able to have some level of faith in others before you decide to start the relationship.

✅ Before you start a new job ensure that you do your research on the company and your employer so you don't get yourself caught up in unprofessional activities at the work place.

✅ Don't depend on word of mouth for you to form conclusions on whether or not someone can be trusted because people will say anything about someone who they don't like.

✅ Don't rush the process of getting to know someone you need to take the time to analyze the individuals personality.

🔘 Always remember that from time to time people will slip up so we have to take that into account before we decide to bash someone completely.



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