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The Dangers of Moving on too soon after heartbreak


Everyone seems to have all the advice to give you to keep your relationship together but not so much advice is found after the relationship has come to an end. One of the biggest mistakes that people make is moving on too soon after a relationship is over. Today, I'm going to highlight some of the dangers of moving on too soon without giving yourself enough time to heal.

✅ After the end of a painful relationship you are in a very vulnerable state and people could end up taking advantage of your situation. They may initially appear to be a comforter but slowly make their moves and before you know it you think you have fallen in love. 

✅ The ending of a relationship sometimes seems women running to the first open arms and end up engaging in risky sexual behaviour. Engaging in these risky sexual behaviour post break up will have you feeling regretful later on and leave you with not the best of reputations.

✅ One of the biggest dangers of moving on too quickly is that you still have your previous relationship fresh on your mind. You find yourself comparing your current partner to your previous partner and this will leave your current partner feeling as if he or she is constantly in a competition.

✅ If your previous relationship ended due to cheating which often seems to be the case you will tend to take your insecurities with you to the new relationship. This cloud of insecurity will have your current partner feeling as if they are fighting am ever ending battle to win your trust.

✅ The rush into a new relationship doesn't allow you enough time to get to know your new partner sufficiently and this can lead to problems later on as it relates to incompatibility.

Yes, moving on too quickly can be dangerous but there are those who have done so and have ended up with great results. However, I decided to share these dangers so that you can think twice before you leap into a relationship. There is no need to rush anything if it's meant to last it will come together when your heart is in a better condition.
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