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The Deadline


Apparently there is a deadline out there for every phase of your life. By a certain age you should have your own house, have children and be married. Growing up you aren't aware of this deadline until you start to get up in age and you are approaching that 30+ mark. You start to hear how much you are wasting your life and how much you will end up old and lonely.  I'm now being informed of this deadline at the age of 24 and without even giving it thought it start to plays with your mind. Am I really wasting my life? Then I start to look at these individuals who are reminding me of the deadlines that I'm facing and I realize that many of them have passed these so called deadlines or they aren't happy with the outcome of their lives after meeting these deadlines.

We aren't created the same so why are we expected to move at the same speed. What works for someone will not necessarily work for another. Many find the right partner young others have to try a little harder to find that blessing. Many have children young while others have to wait longer for either religious or even financial reasons. Whatever the reasons, its your reasons and you owe no one an explanation. Don't be rushed into pleasing others that you end up in situations where you aren't happy or you end up struggling daily. Whether you get that house at 20 or 30 it doesn't matter because things fall into place exactly when they are suppose to. What hinders us achieving our goals at times also is the fact that we spend too much time looking on as others seem to be making it and lose time that could be invested on working on your own dreams. Forget the deadlines and take things by day and if it happens it happens.
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