Curves will get you into the Queen book!

It is really beautiful to see how much recognition black women are getting now a days for the beauty of their skin and hair. However, I've noticed that when it comes to body types women who are more curvy with big breasts and bottom are the ones who used to represent what a black queen represents. I'm wondering what about the women who aren't so well endowed don't they qualify as queens? Pushing only this type or mostly this type will leave so many of our beautiful queens feeling inadequate. Our women are already left with images of what the perfect female looks like on social media instead of having the support of the black community women are left feeling the same way.

We need to remember that just as our black women come in different skin shades they come in different body types. A queen should be known as a queen by the way she speaks, the goodness in her heart, her knowledge of self and the natural beauty she has. Our women can also highlight their natural attractiveness without being completely naked. Why is it that the black community will attack a white woman for dressing revealing but embrace a black women for doing the same because she was created to be at one with earth and embrace her nakedness. Come on if we are going to speak out against something do so without any hypocrisy. Queens have small bottoms! Queens have small breasts! Queens are straight! Queens have relaxed hair! We can educate without discriminating! Let us educating all our queens about their roots and show some appreciation regardless of the exterior. We have enough divisions in this world we need more unity in our black community.

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